Thoughts on World Mental Health Day

Two people walking alongside each other. One is wearing a Being Alongside t-shirt

On World Mental Health Day, which falls this year on 10th October, we are reminded of something simple but profound: none of us is meant to walk through life alone.

At Being Alongside, we cherish the power of friendship, compassion and listening. Sometimes what a person needs most is not an answer, but someone willing to sit beside them, hear their story and remind them that they are seen, valued and not forgotten.

We believe in the generosity of human connection — in reaching out, sharing what we have, and recognising that our wellbeing is woven into something larger than ourselves. We are part of families, communities, nature and creation; part of a whole in which each of us matters.

And we hold on to hope: hope in one another, hope in the possibility of healing and hope in the providence of God. Healing is not always immediate or complete, but body, mind and spirit can be nurtured, strengthened and renewed through love, friendship, faith and care.

So today, we celebrate everyone who walks alongside another — the friend who listens, the volunteer who gives their time, the person who notices someone struggling, and the one who simply stays.

Because sometimes, being alongside is itself a gift of healing.

With gratitude to all who share in the Being Alongside journey.

Clive Timehin, chair of trustees

Summer 2026 magazine

Our Summer 2026 issue of Being Alongside magazine is out! (Click on the image above to read it).

After a retrospective of his first year in post by our new chair, Dr Clive Timehin, setting out his aims for the charity, our news section reports on the fundraising walk we held in Battersea Park in July, an update to our grants scheme, and the publication of Personally Speaking, a new book in which 22 psychiatrists share how their own life experiences have shaped their approach to care.

As this is our 40th anniversary year, we then look back at the beginnings of our association, our first few tumultuous years, and the shaping of Being Alongside into its current role as a small charity with a vision which remains special inamongst the many other admirable organisations and initiatives which have proliferated in the field over the past few decades.

A report of our 2026 conference on the theme of “Light in open space” follows, with summaries of the presentations by our two guest speakers, Revd Stephen Radley and Sara “Siggy” Parratt-Halbert, plus an introduction to the wonderful venue in which we met – the Bethlem Museum of the Mind.

The magazine’s centre spread and following pages are taken up with striking paintings by Karen Fielding, a member of the weekly art group at The LINK (Croydon APCMH). Her artwork helps us to gain an impression of her experiences of psychosis and expression.

A soothing contrast is provided by inspiring words and beautiful photographs introducing us to the peace and tranquility of Bridewell Gardens in Oxfordshire, where the invitation to work with one’s hands, growing and nurturing plants, is helping people rebuild their lives in a safe and supportive environment.

We complement the gardening theme with a poem entitled Roots and Leaves Themselves Alone by Walt Whitman, reproduced in the beautiful original typography of a 1905 edition of his collection Leaves of Grass.

Our indefatigable administrator Revd Lucy Roose recently stepped down from the post to concentrate on her work as a Church of England minister and hospital chaplain. Our gratitude for her five years of dedicated service is expressed in a tribute by trustee Ben Wilson, and we also print a farewell piece from Lucy herself with an inspiring conclusion drawn from the gospel of Matthew.

We round off this issue of Being Alongside with a visit to the wonderful Cellar Camino Café in Godalming, which has been a place of welcome, hope and community for an amazing 47 years.

Our magazine is freely available to all digitally. If you would like to enjoy it in glossy paper form, you are warmly encouraged to become one of our supporters.

Grant scheme update: support for existing projects

Being Alongside first launched its grant scheme in the summer of 2023. Our aim was to give a helping to local churches and other organisations seeking to start new projects to support those experiencing mental ill-health in their community.

In the last three years, we have directly supported more than half a dozen local initiatives, including a number of regular drop-in events exemplifying the values of “being alongside” those in need.

Given this success, the trustees have decided to extend the scheme for a further year, until at least September 2027, and expand the number of projects which could benefit.

We initially focused on providing seed corn funding for brand new projects (principally café style drop-in events and befriending services), but in light of demand, we are now expanding our criteria to provide support to existing projects that need one-off help to sustain their work.

We will also consider applications from previous grant recipients, where they can show an ongoing need (alongside a plan for financial viability).

To help spread our support as widely as possible, we will now encourage applicants to restrict bids to £1,500, while retaining the maximum (in exceptional circumstances) of £2,000 per award.

We have amended our application form to reflect these changes: the new form is below, and the trustees welcome fresh applications. We will consider those in September 2026, December 2026; and March, June and September 2027.

Please download the file, save it on your own computer and edit it from there, before returning the completed form to us by email.

Light in Open Spaces: catch up here

Bethlem Museum of the Mind was our venue for this year’s Being Alongside conference, where around 50 supporters of the charity gathered to hear from two stimulating speakers and take in a tour of the galleries.

The event sought to explore how light, creativity and expansive spaces can open pathways to personal transformation, deepen spiritual awareness and support mental health.

Our first speaker was Steve Radley, an RAF chaplain, ex-serviceman and professional photographer. You can listen to Steve’s presentation below.

Next up, Sara “Siggy” Parratt–Halbert, a visually imaginative creator who turns complex ideas into engaging, story-rich images by weaving theology, artistry and learning. You can listen back to Siggy’s talk below.

A written summary of the two talks and the wider event will feature in our summer magazine.

Thank you to all who joined us on the day.

Events update: conference, sponsored walk, and anniversary evensong

Some dates for your diary! Please follow links for more details.

Being Alongside conference 2026: Light in Open Spaces
Saturday 16th May 2026
10am – 2pm
Bethlem Museum of the Mind, London
Fully booked, but a conference report will be published in our magazine and we hope to publish audio of talks here on our website.

Trustees’ sponsored walk in Battersea Park
Saturday 18th July 2026
12 noon
Our trustees will be undertaking a sponsored summer walk (whatever the weather!) to raise funds and awareness for the charity.
You are very welcome to join in the walk and for refreshments afterwards.
Be sure to chip in to sponsor them via our JustGiving page!

Choral evensong & 40th anniversary reception
Friday 18th September 2026
5:30 pm
Southwark Cathedral
Our patron, the Rt Revd Dr Guli Francis-Dehqani, Bishop of Chelmsford, will preach, and the service will be followed by a celebratory reception.
Tickets are free to our supporters, but please register to attend by 1st September by writing to admin@beingalongside.org.uk


Personally Speaking published

Last year Being Alongside provided a small grant to help fund the publication of a new book entitled Personally Speaking, in which 22 psychiatrists share how their own life experiences have shaped their approach to psychiatric care.

Photo of two copies of a book entitled Personally SpeakingThe book is the project of Dr Glenn Roberts, who previously produced Strengthened by Storms in 2023, which brought together stories from people working in mental health services in the county of Devon, as well as Beyond the Storms, a 2009 collection of recovery stories. (Click the titles of either of those to read them free of charge online in flippable form or download them in PDF).

The aim of Glenn’s new publication, Personally Speaking, has been to gather psychiatrists together to share in an open and honest contemplation on how they can learn from difficult life experiences in service of their lifelong journey to maturity, and in service of developing compassionate, relational and person-centred responses to mental distress. It carries the hope of being a creative contribution to cultural change in psychiatric training and practice.

Read more and order digital or paper copies at the Personally Speaking website.

Summer 2025 magazine

Our Summer 2025 issue of Being Alongside magazine is out! (Click on the image above to read it).

After an introduction by our new chair, Dr Clive Timehin, setting out his aims for the charity, a short but sweet news section leads with some really good news about our Croydon offshoot and its recent rebrand as The Link.

There’s then a report on our 2025 conference which gathered under the theme of “Journeying Together”, at which we were delighted to welcome as our speakers Revd Prof Chris Cook, co-author of Struggling with God: Mental Health and Christian Spirituality; and Andrea Smyth, who is chaplain to London North and Eurostar for the Railway Mission.
In addition, we were honoured to have both of Being Alongside’s patrons in attendance. The report is accompanied by some wonderful photos taken by Ron Timehin.

Next, our charity’s administrator Revd Lucy Roose reviews Wrestling With My Thoughts by Sharon Hastings. Sharon is a doctor, and writes about her lived experienced of journeying through diagnoses of depression, an eating disorder, mania, psychosis and schizo-affective disorder, and how she has managed to make sense of that journey.

We then feature another frank first-person account of serious mental health distress courtesy of Ele Cushing, who writes for us about her terrifying experience dealing with postpartum psychosis, and how her faith helped her both during that experience and afterwards, as she now works in an organisation which empowers and supports parents, carers and children in the care system.

A peaceful interlude is then provide by our patron Dr Larry Culliford in the form of his recollection of a wonderful silent winter retreat in Kent, in company with 12 fellow workers in the health and social care sector. The photo on the front cover of the magazine captures the stunning 20-foot wooden angel carved from the remains of an ash tree, which is one of the attractions of the venue where they met — Quiet View near Canterbury in Kent.

In this issue’s follow-up on outcomes from our ongoing grant programme, we hear from Sara Crozier of St Andrew’s Church, Langley Mill, about a gentleman called Tony who, despite having a serious health condition, helped to set up a lunch club at the church, took a Being Alongside-funded Samaritans training course, and now works as a call responder on a mental health crisis helpline. Sara writes: “Tony is one of twelve people who attended the If it was only him that was supported by Being Alongside funding, then I would tell anyone considering giving to Being Alongside that every penny you can give to their grant scheme is worth donating.”

As part of our continuing series looking at initiatives with similar aims to ours, our editor Trevor Parsons finds out about the Be Well programme, run by South London Listens, in which more than 80 Be Well hubs are now operating in faith-based and secular settings alike, led by mental health champions who receive training and ongoing supervision from the South London Listens NHS team, as well as community organising training from Citizens UK.

And finally, we hear from Ben Wilson, who recently moved sideways into the role of the charity’s treasurer, and reflects on what we have achieved during the three years he spent as chair.

Our magazine is freely available to all digitally. If you would like to enjoy it in glossy paper form, you are warmly encouraged to become one of our supporters.

Journeying Together: catch up here

Around 50 supporters of Being Alongside gathered in Battersea on Saturday 5 April for our fourth conference in as many years.

Being Alongside’s patrons, Dr Larry Culliford and Rt Revd Dr Guli Francis-Dehqani pictured at the event

We heard from the Revd Prof Chris Cook, reflecting on the themes of his book Struggling with God: Mental Health and Christian Spirituality. Chris examined the central tension at the heart of Christian faith amidst suffering and pain, pointing to the centrality of prayer as a foundation stone for finding God amongst the stigma and challenges of mental health difficulties.

You can listen back to Chris’ address below.

We were also fortunate to hear from Andrea Smyth, Railway Mission’s chaplain for London North and the Eurostar. Andrea offered a beautifully personal and honest reflection on her ministry among staff and passengers, showcasing what it means to “be alongside” those facing mental health struggles.

Thank you to all who joined us on the day, and who responded to our call for new trustees to help bring new perspectives and energy to the charity as we prepare for our 40th anniversary next year.

Trustees and supporters pictured with our two patrons and guest speakers: (L-R) Helen Trout, Vice Chair; Lucy Roose, Administrator; Larry Culliford, Patron; Richard Trout; Rev Prof Chris Cook, Rt Rev Dr Guli Francis-Dehqani, Patron; Michael Rothwell; Andrea Smyth; Rev Cathy Wiles; Dr Clive Timehin; Ben Wilson, Chair; Jamie Summers

Chair and Trustee vacancies: join us!

Do you want to join us on the journey of improving the care offered to those with mental health difficulties?

We are looking for a new Chair and up to three new Trustees to help us on our mission to improve spiritual and pastoral care in the mental health field.

Being Alongside was founded 40 years ago to help promote a holistic approach to supporting those experiencing mental health difficulties. The charity has a Christian foundation, operating non-denominationally and working with local groups (both faith based and non-faith based) which directly support individuals by ‘being alongside’ them through challenging times.

Our primary activity is to encourage and support local projects, specifically drop-in café style programmes and befriending schemes, including through the provision of seed corn funding for new projects.

We are a small charity with around 100 registered supporters, and one part time administrator. Expenditure has exceeded income for the last few years, but the trustees have adopted an ambitious approach to using our historic reserves to support new projects which deliver our charitable objects in communities across the country.

We are looking for a Chair (or individuals interested in being a Co-Chair) and Trustees to help navigate the next stage of the charity’s journey, including taking decisions on future fundraising strategy.

We are particularly keen to attract trustees with accounting/finance, governance or fundraising experience, and hope to appoint new office holders from May 2025 for an initial period of three years.

Trustee meetings are held once a quarter, for two hours, usually in central London. While online attendance is possible, we encourage trustees to attend in person for at least two meetings per year. Trustees are also encouraged to attend occasional events organised by the charity.

While both of these roles are voluntary, expenses will be fully reimbursed.

Role descriptions can be downloaded here:

For an informal chat about the charity and these roles, please contact our current Chair, Ben Wilson: chair@beingalongside.org.uk.

Expressions of interest in the form of a brief personal statement (no more than 500 words) should be sent to admin@beingalongside.org.uk by Friday 28th February, or submitted via the Trustees Unlimited website by the same date. We will then be in touch with further details including opportunities to attend a trustee meeting as an observer.

Our 2025 conference: Journeying Together

On Saturday 5th April we will hold a half-day conference exploring the topic of journeying together with God and each other through life’s challenges.

The event will take place between 10.30am and 2pm at All Saints, Battersea Fields, South London. All Saints (100 Prince of Wales Dr, London SW11 4BD ) is easily accessed from Battersea Park or Queenstown Road train stations.

We are pleased to announce that one of our Patrons, the Rt Revd Dr Guli Francis-Dehqani will introduce proceedings, which will include a keynote address from the Revd Prof Christopher Cook, co-author of Struggling with God: Mental Health and Christian Spirituality.

Bishop Guli, our Patron, who will offer some words of welcome at the conference

Christopher’s book is described by the publishers, SPCK, as “a fresh, hopeful and scriptural companion for both those struggling with mental illness and their supporters, carers, and the church community who, like Jesus, seek to come alongside all with the practical and spiritual hope of a God who journeys with us in our suffering.” Copies will be available to purchase at the event.

Our second speaker will be Andrea Smyth, Railway Mission’s Chaplain to London North and Eurostar. Andrea will talk about the charity’s ministry offering confidential, impartial pastoral care to the railway community and passengers of the railway network – including those facing family breakdown, mental ill-health and bereavement.

As always, we will ensure there is plenty of time for questions, discussion and of course meeting others. Coffee and tea will be served upon arrival, and a light sandwich lunch will be provided to close.

All Saints Battersea, venue for our 2025 conference

While in the past, attendees have generously offered donations to help cover costs, these events have typically run at a loss to the charity. The trustees have therefore decided to ask attendees for a payment of £10 in advance (£5 for the unwaged) to help ensure that such events are sustainable into the future.

To book, please email admin@beingalongside.org.uk with your name and also make a donation for either £10 or £5 via the ‘Donate’ button above (we will match this up when PayPal notifies us of your donation). Alternatively, please send payment via an online transfer or by cheque. We are trying to avoid taking cash payments on the day.

We look forward to seeing you in April!